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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like you married my ex-husband.  His remarriage occurred a couple of months after the divorce was final (and we filed at one year separated).  [b]He went from marriage to online dating to re-coupling and never took a second to reflect on the demise of the long term marriage or his role in it.[/b]  He convinced himself that our marriage had been over for years (it haven’t been). He quickly got his new wife pregnant and will have a minor child in his house until he’s elderly.  Lately whenever I have any contact with him about our kids or finances he’s nasty- and he used to get that way when we were married when he was unhappy with his life or needed sex.  I feel for his new wife but it is what it is.  Broken attracts broken.[/quote]

Yup. I've known several men who are eager to get onto the apps during separation as a kind of distraction from the divorce, but dang if it isn't uncanny how they meet the "love of their life" within a month and a half. Then they wait for the divorce before cohabitating (most divorce decrees actually require this), then there's a ring, and wedding, and a baby, usually all in about two years time. Hmmm, yes, what an excellent "distraction from the divorce." Listen to yourselves.

No one ever says "I'm going to date during my separation so that I can find my replacement spouse" but damn if that isn't what happens a lot of the time (for men, women generally don't want replacement husbands).[/quote]

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