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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This seems pretty obvious. Only someone truly despaeate and pathetic would jump into a marriage that quickly [/quote]

I happens all the time though, with people who absolutely have other options. I think it often happens because it feels someone exciting or illicit (like you are taking someone from someone else, which excites certain people) and then you are "in love" and it just steams ahead from there.

I would say never, ever date someone whose divorce is not final. That line about legal waiting periods for divorce is common. But what's the longest you ever have to stay separated before you divorce -- a year? That might seem like a long time for the people involved, but in the grand scheme of things it's really not that long and probably a good idea to hold off on dating until after you finalize. What a good opportunity to work on yourself and think about what you want.

I have heard many separated, soon-to-be divorced people complain about having trouble dating during that time period and I do think it's due to a desire to move on mentally and also because they feel lonely, and I agree with OP that this is not a good environment to me dating in. Just wait until the divorce is final and then do what you want.[/quote]

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