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[quote=Anonymous]Gottman’s Seven Principles hits the nail on the head for what I need to want sex. Love maps, turning towards, and creating shared meaning were all really important for me. One moment that sticks out is when I was having a stressful/anxious day, my H brought me over to the couch, held me and stroked my hair while I cried about everything. What was great is I didn’t have to ask him for it, he anticipated what I needed. He’s gotten very good at that, when I’m upset he can tell exactly what I need before I have to ask for it. We usually have very good sex afterwards :) “Wooing” as in dates or flowers don’t really do much for me. I need something that feels specific to *me*, not something generic that he’d get for any woman. I need to feel special. [/quote]
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