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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you're an internet stranger so I'm just gonna give it to you straight.....GROW UP! You sound immature and selfish, and I recognize this because I've been where you are. I separated from my spouse and it devastated our family. The kids suffered so much. In seeing them suffer we both saw how immature we were being. Fights over money were stupid, we weren't going bankrupt. Not being light and laughing together was stupid. We were blessed to have each other, be healthy, have great kids. It is easy to let lifes stressors pile up and be a joykill. You must actively resist this. Remember back how it was when you were dating, when you were kind, and intersted/interesting, when you said positive things to your partner on a regular. Get back to that.[/quote]

Thank you. Did you get back together?

It's hard not to be a joykill, when someone is asking you to literally work for things (boat) you dont even value and takes time away from things you do value (family). You are right though, that's why Im telling myself, is it just cheaper to get him the damn boat so I can still sleep every night with my kids. I will take immature and selfish. But from my perspective, a father of 3 is being immature and selfish buying a boat when we are not even saving up for college. But again, should I just swallow this? we tried, and I really got mad, because I thought the bike, kayak would be enough.... Now it's a freaking boat with dock fees. [/quote]

This is a financial issue primarily. Say no.[/quote]

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