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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't really say why you cannot be happy together or what you've done to work on the marriage. Maybe you should try fixing it.

If it is just about spending money, that is something you both can work on if you try. (And yes, being frugal can be toxic when it is obsessive or a means of being controlling.) You can work as a team to get along with each other's family, and you knew what you were getting into there when you got married and had kids. And you can learn how to fight without being mean.
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I said it there-- irreconcilable differences. we've been married 10 years, and I feel like, we are getting worse, not better, in terms of fighting. We tried counselling, even counsellors shake their heads. I feel both of us had fantasies of each other, and ultimately the marriage was practical. [/quote]

13:34 again. You have to stop fighting as much as you can. This is what I do, to preserve my sanity. I will fight every time to defend my child, but apart from that, I let go of everything that's not dangerous. I live my life with my kids and my friends.[/quote]

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