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[quote=Anonymous]We stopped doing IVF for a second child when the odds of success from continued cycles dropped under 10% and it began to feel pointless. You get so used to the physical and emotional hardship that it becomes your normal. Then you stop and realize how much you had been putting yourself through. Surprisingly, we conceived naturally 4 times after stopping treatment, but all ended in early miscarriages due to chromosomal issues. That was extra confirmation that trying would just mean more pain and loss. It sucked, but was validating that we really weren't going to get lucky if we had kept trying forever. I'll say, many women hit the emotional wall after their third failed cycle. If you don't feel like you've hit the wall yet, then try again and see how you feel. You'll know when you've had enough.[/quote]
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