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[quote=Anonymous]Is she asking for your consent for them never to visit your parents? Or is she just telling you how she feels? Rather than look for a "solution," I'd ask whether there are things that you or your parents are doing that are making her feel like an outsider (either ask her, or ask your brother) that you could change. And then listen, without being defensive or rushing to justify your behavior. If there's really nothing you are doing, then I'd think that they could visit sometimes, but that most visits would be either in California or in a "neutral" location. [/quote]
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