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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And you expect anyone who reads this to believe that it is SHE who is jealous of YOU?[/quote]

OP here. Okay, I have to ask - what did I say or indicate to show that I am jealous of my sister? This is like someone thinking you must have been one of those jealous TTC women before you finally got pg too...and thus the snarky comment. [/quote]

I'm not the person who called you jealous and jealous may be the wrong word but your response to her jealousy is way off. You are wrapped up in it somehow. Why not just tell her on email  or let your mother tell her? What do you think she is going to do?

[b]Siblings are often jealous of each other[/b] so your surprise at her jealousy is also off. If your sister is unstable, which is how you describe her, then the jealousy isn't the issues. She has mental health issues and you should just be as kind as possible.[/quote]

I haven't found this to be the case with my friends and their siblings though. They all have such close, supportive relationships so it's my relationship with my sister that feels so off.  I have friends who are also very supportive of me regardless of what's going on in their lives. So my relationship with my sister feels like the anomaly.

Maybe my reaction sounds off because it's been going on, the comparing, the put downs, the mean spirited comments, for so long. Impossible to shrug it off anymore.[/quote]

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