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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] 1. I would not go, as the nation will be firmly in the grip of Delta this fall. 2. But where it not for the pandemic, [b]I would just ask if they accept a plus one, and note that it's fine if they refuse. If they refuse, he can join you on the non-wedding times. [/b]No hurt feelings on either side.[/quote] Oh my god, OP do NOT do the bolded! That would be incredibly rude and tacky. The appropriate thing to do is spend the weekend with the other invited wedding guests. Take two extra days AFTER the wedding is over, have your boyfriend fly out to join you AFTER all the wedding festivities are over and explore THEN. [/quote] It's rude and tacky to not allow +1 for the adult. It's completely fine for OP to have her boyfriend come and hang out with him for non-wedding events. The bride doesn't get to hold OP hostage, and OP probably has limited vacation time.[/quote]
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