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[quote=Anonymous]I recall you posting about this on another forum/another time.  If you don't want to speak to her or have a relationship with her, I suggest you send her a brief email saying you are pregnant, how far along you are, and that you wanted her to know.  If that is too much, I suggest you ask your mother to tell her and let her know it's not a secret.

I understand you are angry at her, and understandably, but you are continuing the drama by keeping this a secret, it will most certainly look like you attend to throw this in her face, whether you mean to or not.  She may have valid feelings regarding her relationship with you, whether she is handling them well or not.  Involving your mom in the deception is a way of triangulating the relationship and making her furthermore, an outsider, she will resent that you both kept this from her, but I suspect she will be particularly hurt that you were able to collude your mother in doing this too.

Be happy about your pregnancy, no one should take your joy away from you, but a lot of this is about whether you allow her to or not.  You are a part of the drama right now, so remove yourself.  [/quote]

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