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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your daughter is a follower, just part of the herd so relax. She wants to fit in and be accepted and she is going to do what it takes for that to happen. I suppose you could do some kind of personality intervention but I doubt she changes. Her identity and value as a person is found in The Group. it is who she is and who she is going to be. Maybe if you moved to MoCo she might change to be a little meaner and not want to be a pleasing, agreeable person?[/quote] No, you want your kid to be ok being part of the group but knowing that there is a time and place to say no and not follow. Not every kid has to lead but the people pleaser is more likely to go along with something dangerous due to peer pressure then the kid who is fine following but understands that it is ok and acceptable to say no.[/quote]
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