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[quote=Anonymous]90 in 90 is great if you’re on board with wanting to recover. It also runs the risk of becoming a meeting maker, which is someone who just goes to the meetings as a cursory exercise. To be effective, you have to be on board to: Attend meetings/ keep coming back Find a home group Find a sponsor Work the steps I used to really bristle at the term “dry drunk” but I’ve seen enough of them in the rooms and they really are just people who are meeting makers. They still live in the misery of their alcoholism, the difference is they just don’t drink any more and have and continue to do nothing to improve their thinking through therapy, counselling, or working the steps (which is one of the big reasons people hate AA). There is a significant correlation between substance abuse and ACES, and those need to be worked through in order to recover, not just “be sober”. [/quote]
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