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[quote=Anonymous]I’ve tried to hint to my parents for awhile I don’t want them to visit sick, even if they deem it just a minor cold. It started with when we had babies and I got angry at my mom a couple of times for coming sick. Kids are now older, but I still find it so rude and it’s hard to be warm with her here when I’m so put  out. If she brings a cold here, it’s such a disruption to our three kids in terms of going to camps, seeing friends, etc, especially now with remaining covid restrictions (kids are under 12). I think she thinks I’m an idiot and is t notice her coughing and blowing her nose, or she’ll call it allergies no matter the time of year. She also is insecure about stuff, I think that’s why she comes sick and does t just cancel. She can’t bear to think she’s miss the piano recital or swim meet or whatever. I find it so so self centered and inconsideate. Jus cancel and we’ll plan another time for goodness sake. FWIW they’re a 2-3 hour drive away. They also have plenty of money to stay in a hote. Am I being unreasonable trying to set a rule that we don’t want sick houseguests ever?[/quote]

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