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[quote=Anonymous]Serious(ish) answer: as long as you both have a sense of humor about your differences and aren't judgmental or defensive about it, it can work. Like, if you poke fun of each other's "culture," are you each able to chuckle and acknowledge, "yeah, it is a little ridiculous that my high school friends all own horses/all wear flat-brimmed Hurley hats, but I kind of love it." But if there's insecurity, it can be tough. My parents were sort of mis-matched in the respect that my mother was very blue-blood and well-educated and my dad came from nothing and was the first of any close relation to go even to a crappy college. While it was to dad's credit that he "made it," the chip on his shoulder and resentment about how "easy" my mom supposedly had it growing up was toxic.[/quote]
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