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[quote=Anonymous]My DH would never SAY that. And mostly his actions support that he does value the children. But when the kids were little he'd make himself lunch and not bother asking the kids if they wanted anything. He did this over and over again, and I can't understand it. Even now that the kids are big enough to get their own lunches he'll get up to make something and not ask anybody else if they want something. We accidentally got pregnant and I ended up having an abortion b/c he couldn't imagine having another child and it stressed him out. I have forgiven him. I'm at peace with it. I'm not seething over with rage. But when I think about how selfish he was I just can't reconcile his normal giving self with that. But I'll never look at him the same way. [/quote]
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