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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who the F knows? She may be unaware, she could be unsure how to broach your loss (I mean it seems pretty uncouth to mention via text, maybe she was waiting for in person), maybe she is self centered.

You do seem a bit much though. You don’t earn chits against the woman just because you organized a meal train. I would assume you did it as a good generous person, and good generous person thinks the best of people’s intentions, which you are not doing.

Also, to be frank as someone who lost both parents.  You lost your elderly dad, which is expected and normal. It sounds like this woman lost her husband way way young (if she has kids who still need rides, unless she married a geriatric?). So her loss is much more debilitating and unexpected, and honesty is probably past of why she is so desperate for a freaking carpool which you seem to want to snub her about. [/quote]

Her loss is much more debilitating? She's desperate for a carpool?

Are you OP's neighbor? Because if you aren't, you are really reading a LOT into this story. [/quote]

Please enlighten me. She lost her spouse a few years back, which removes a PARENT from her household. I assume it was young since the kids are young.  I definitely need my spouse to make our household work, sharing pickup, drop off, childcare, etc.

She asked Op to give her ride to a ballet class both their daughters are in, hence the carpool reference. What am I missing?  It’s no skin off Op back to pick up the  neighbors kids on the way to their daughters class.

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