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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have discovered for the third time that my DD (who is 16) is reading fan-fiction porn. There are sites like Archieve of our Own where people post the fan fiction that they write, and some of it is just ordinary bad (bad writing), but the rest of it is porn - and not romantic porn, but hard core disturbing porn (stories or gang rape, male on male rape/sex, kids watching, etc).  When we discovered it before, we have told her that her curiousity is normal, totally age appropriate but that we don't feel like this is the kind of material she should be reading. We asked her to stop, she agreed, and we casually monitored her internet use - meaning I didn't check what she was doing every day, but would occassionally look.  After the second time we discovered it, we put a tracking software on, and that helped, but it isn't 100% teenproof and this is the third time we have discovered her accessing it again.  I think she feels guilty about it. She has some issues of picking at her skin...and I think it is related to the guilt, tension she feels about reading this stuff.   I think it is time for us to block her access to the site....but it is hard to completely block a site ...and then of course she can probably find this stuff somewhere else....and I don't want her to turn to videos.  We have a fairly open relationship, but this is hard.  We have really tried to avoid shaming her, but the content is so disturbing to me, that is is hard avoid some shame.  Any advice?  Please -helpful and thoughtful posts only.  [/quote]

Omg MYOB you pervert! The kid is 16[/quote]

I’m not the OP but did you see the kind of material the child was looking at? OP should be okay saying that she doesn’t want her minor child living in her house to be looking at erotic stories of kids watching somebody rape somebody else. This isnt your typical erotic fan fiction. [/quote]

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