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Reply to "I will always love my husband, but my hatred is growing"
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[quote=Anonymous] Armchair psychologist here. It's not you. It's him struggling with his childhood baggage. Children of abuse protect themselves by following the false image projected by their disfunctional families. He's not pouting, he's dealing with a wind storm of emotions, like guilt and anger. He knows his family is a nightmare. Somehow though, it's sewn into the foundation of his psyche that he should remain loyal to them. This appears to be tied to their access to the kids. He needs to work this stuff out on his own. I would suggest you and he EACH go to a counselor in order to get to a place where this BS can be dislodged from your marriage. I would also definitely write a letter to Cary Tennis (Since You Asked, Salon). He'd have a whole lot to say. [/quote]
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