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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think most people assume you will get heavy again after kids. It’s not really fair but I think that’s what’s going on. Most of my friends who were thin but worked at it all puffed up after kids, especially kid 2 or 3. [/quote]

Unfortunately, I think this is true. OP, you can use this as a way to weed out shallow jerks. [/quote]

Agreed. It is great that you are in such a good place with both your mental and physical health right now, and it sounds like you are living a really happy and healthy lifestyle. But if you are looking for a life partner, you need to find someone who would support you even when you struggle, whether that comes in the form of gaining weight, another bout of depression, or some unrelated health issue or issue (you will have them, everyone does). Anyone who would dismiss you as a potential partner because they are worried your history with weight gain will be a problem in the future is frankly being unrealistic about how life works. Consider yourself lucky that you have such an easy way to screen out immature guys who think everyone should always look and feel perfect with no issues. They are in for a rude awakening in life and no reason for you to have to walk them through it.[/quote]

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