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[quote=Anonymous]I’m 32 and lost over 100lbs when I was 30. I’m 5’1” and spent most of my life very skinny and then a healthy skinny in my teens. Then I got hit with PCOS and some depression ( unresolved family issues as a child) and I was very overweight. I decided that I was tired of being sick and tired and didn’t love myself or my body. I lost all of the weight and went to therapy when I was 30. It was an amazing feeling. Now I’m very passionate about nutrition and working out. I know I will never go back to that place I was once in. I’m not crazy about it, but I do have many activities now that are centered around cooking healthy food and active activities like working out, running, hiking, etc. I’ve stayed committed to be the best possible version of myself. This all sounds great but dating is hard when men learn I used to be overweight. I have had two relationships since then that never cared ( one was also overweight and lost it), but most wont give me a chance. I don’t really talk about it, but I also don’t shy away from it once we started getting closer and I open about that chapter in my life. Some have been understanding, but most kind of just don’t like me after it. I know it’s going to come up at some point and I will not be able to hide it from a future partner. Do men really care if a woman was once overweight? Would you not date a woman because she was overweight? [/quote]

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