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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t cede your turf when she’s there. You are still the woman of the house. Stand up to her and don’t retreat or feel like you have to keep the peace. [/quote] +1. I also wouldn’t treat her as a guest (not serve her, clean up after her, etc.), generally ignore her and make her feel unwelcome so she doesn’t want to return. Passive aggressive, I know. Make her your DH’s problem. He has to cater to her. Also would boldly ask her when is her return ticket. You have nothing to lose at this point. This woman was mean and emotionally abusive to you and your disabled child. But I also would never agree to this arrangement in the first place. 3-day visit max if I was feeling generous.[/quote]
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