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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You "kind of" get their point of view OP, really? They were completely disinherited, and you have no real information about why or how the marriage ended. That's not to say you should reject the inheritance, but yeah, be prepared for alegal battle. And perhaps internalize that this man did something deliberately and extremely hurtful to his own children, perhaps with your mother's support. It's  one thing to have a distant relationship; another thing to completely disiniherit your children in favor of step-grandchildren, when there's  apparently plenty of money to go around. It's kind of bad karma. [/quote]

If the kids did not see him for the last 20 yers, you still think they deserve something? Why?[/quote]

My parents had a very ugly divorce and one of my siblings has sided with my mom and refused to see my dad for 20 years. I’m executor of my dads estate and he still provides for all his kids to split his estate equally, including the estranged child. My dad doesn’t take the estrangement personally and understands there are forces in play that are bigger than him (personality disorders, toxic family dynamics). He loves all his kids regardless of what they do for him. And I also think he would never want bad feelings between his kids. He loves us all and always will, no matter what.[/quote]

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