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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Him being 45 with toddlers isn't a concern. Even being 60 at HS graduation isn't a concern. What is a concern is retirement plans: will he work until he is 73(+), so you will be medicare-eligible? Or will he retire, and you continue to work? Will that cause resentment? Or, will you retire early, and purchase insurance off the private market for eight years? Are you on track to save for that, AND pay for childcare, housing, etc? Or maybe we have moved to some form of universal healthcare by then. Beyond insurance, are you saving enough to sustain the surviving spouse (likely you) for a decade (+), even if you leave the workforce early?[/quote] I agree with the PP and I'm also in the same boat, as I had my second child at 41 y/o (I'm the mom).[/quote]
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