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Reply to "I feel very unappreciated as a mother"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous](ps ~ don't "prepare" the household for this in order to take your trip)[/quote] Yes, this is good advice and I will take it. I am realizing how much I do, unconciously, to make my DH's life easier and his time with the kids easier. For example- if I have something to do one evening and dinner and bedtime is DH's responsibility- I will often make dinner and have everything ready for him. He has never done the same for me. I shouldnt have to work for my free time or earn my keep. I don't do it with the intention of being a martyr or freeing DH from responsibility. But I know that kids would eat PBJ and DH will just dial it in. I know kids will not suffer from not eating a veggie or fruit. But why do I have to just accept that DH will dial it in? I guess I have to start somewhere. From now on, when it is DH's turn to be with the kids in the evening- no more prepping. [/quote]
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