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[quote=Anonymous]I can't say I feel unappreciated, but DH just didn't SEE all that I do. So I dropped a lot of balls, specifically his balls. I stopped sending his parents and siblings presents. I put calendar notices on his iphone of when their birthdays were and I often say "Did you send your mom a mother's day card/gift?" but he doesn't and they just don't get anything anymore. I even have a stack of birthday cards and amazon gift cards that he could stuff inside, but he doesn't. I'm just letting the guilt go. If I don't want to do something- I just don't do it. I also made DH in charge of tasks. That way there's no wondering who will do the task- we know exactly who should do it and he can't not do it. [/quote]
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