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[quote=Anonymous]OP here - thanks PPs. I am definitely not angry with her - though others in our group are.  I keep telling myself that I have no right to expect anything from her but I have the capacity to continue to give (emotionally) so will do so.  But I would like not to be operating in a vaccum (l would love for her to say...look I love you but it's too hard to be in touch with you right now...or something similar).  I don't know if I should try to broach the subject with her in some kind of way or just let it be.  Probably just let it be.  Another close friend wrote her an email expressing her feelings in the most positive and supportive way possible and she took it as criticism that she wasn't being a good enough friend.   I last saw her last Spring when her father passed away unexpectedly.  She was very close to him and he was young and fit so this was another huge blow.  I took a week off of work to help her and her mom plan the funeral, cooked for her, tried to help her take care of her son.  She was mildly appreciative and her husband was just a total jerk.  She is pregnant again, after a miscarriage last year, and is expecting a healthy baby girl in Jan.  I don't know if adding a newborn to the mix will be good for them or make their lives even more difficult. I've offered to come without my kids while she is on maternity leave to cook, clean, watch one or both kids so she can nap, etc, etc.  Was met with a decidely lukewarm response.  We'll see.  I love her so much and she is really like a sister to me and I just want to help.[/quote]

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