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[quote=Anonymous]I have cut my mother out of my life a few months ago. She's always been a depressing person to be around and she's a big manipulator who loves to have people feel sorry for her. She has messed up her finances, she's been financially dependent on me for the past 15 years. I just couldn't do it anymore. I blocked her everywhere, I told her we were done.

It has come to my attention that she has started to contact my ILs, my old classmates, friends, people she knows I keep in touch with but she hasn't talked to in years. She gives them a sob story how she doesn't know where I am, how she doesn't know what she has done to me, how she's struggling both physically and financially, and she just creates the whole "poor me, my daughter abandoned me but I still love her" BS. I've had phone calls and e-mails and texts from people saying what's up and that they feel so bad for her and that maybe we will kiss and make up because, after all, she's my mom and I am the only child. I want to take legal action against her, to prevent her from contacting people and slandering me. But we live in different states. Is there anything I can do? Just the sound of her voice or anyone mentioning her name makes me want to throw up. That's how bad the relationship is. I am worn out. I am burned out. I want her to leave me alone.  [/quote]

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