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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d go with au pair. They are more open to moving schedules than nannies who want reliable hours in specific windows. [/quote]

Yeah, this is what I thought, and the au pair agencies really try to sell this. But the reality is that most au pairs get pissy and entitled if you want them to work evenings or weekends, and they will rematch and leave you in the lurch at the drop of a hat. I found them to be even less reliable than nannies, who were also unreliable.

OP, the benefit of daycare is that it doesn't all rest on the shoulders of one person who could flake and throw your life into a tailspin at any moment. It's just always there (barring crazy events like the pandemic, and even then, ours reopened fairly quickly). Au pairs are so unreliable that the last time I had one, I kept my kids in full-day daycare in case the au pair quit (which she did, within a month. She didn't like working evenings and weekends. Not sure when she thought she would be working, since she was told from the beginning that the kids were in preschool/ daycare all day, and I needed her to work outside of those hours so I could focus on taking care of my terminally ill parent).[/quote]

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