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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. A few answers to questions:

- It’s been going on for years, so I don’t know that she is going to stop. It started when we worked together though it felt more normal then (trends tend to happen in shared workplaces). But it’s gone on for three years since then and seems to have gotten worse in the last year.

- I’m honestly not sure why it annoys me. It didn’t used to, but I don’t know if it’s just how long it’s gone on or what, but it bothers me now.

- I don’t share things about myself with her unless she asks directly. I actually started asking her a lot more questions about herself and trying to ficus conversation on her recently, specifically to get the focus off me. But she turns it around on me. I think she also kind of collects info on me from others. Fir instance, I had my bday dinner at a specific restaurant earlier in the spring and did not tell her about it or post about it on social. But then she just posted photos from her dinner at the same place. If it weren’t for the other stuff I’d assume coincidence, but it feels stalkery.[/quote]

Are you stalking her? Sounds like you are following her and obsessed with her?[/quote]

No. We follow each other on social media and see each other once or twice a week with other friends. I don’t seek her out.[/quote]

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