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[quote=Anonymous]Of course, I agree with PPs that this is horribly unfair to your DH and child but its also unfair to your lover not to tell him that you are married.  He is unknowingly committing adultry and he deserves to know the truth.  If he is ok with it once he knows, you are both adults and can do what you want.  But you need to at least tell him that you are married and have a child.  If you don't feel strongly enough about him to want to share the fact that you have a child, you don't truly care about him all that much.  I can't imagine keeping my child a secret--ever--from anyone.  Nothing is worth that to me.  I almost find that worse than the affair itself.

I'm not saying that you have to stay in a marriage if you are unhappy.  Get divorced.  Although it looks like you didn't set yourself up financially so now you are stuck in an unhappy marriage (ugh!).  I feel sorry for your husband if you are only staying with him for money.  You need to get yourself together and make a decision.  Your actions are incredibly selfish and if you don't start doing the right thing (or at least one right thing), you're going to end up completely alone.  [/quote]

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