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[quote=Anonymous]DS is a 2nd grader. Recently he is bothered by whom to play with during recess time. DS has two friends, J and A. Friends A wants to play with DS 
during recess, and follows him around. But DS wants to play with friend J. I told him to try to bring both of his friends to play together. DS said A and 
J don’t like each other, they don’t  want to play together.

When he was in 1st grade last year, similar things happened. At that time, he was friends with the same boy J, and another boy E. He kind of 
ignored E’s wish to play with him during recess, and played with friend J mostly.  But during other time, DS wanted to do things with E.  I think E felt 
hurt, and stopped to be friend with him anymore. When DS realized it, it’s too late. I didn’t know all this until  the end of 1st grade.  He is still upset 
losing E as a friend.

I would like to help him, but at the end of my wit.  More info: J and DS are never in the same class, J lives one block away. E was in the same 
class with DS last year. Friend A is in the same class with DS this year, so they do things together when it’s not recess time,  and they have known 
each other since preschool, have playdates regularly since kindergarten.  DS always wants to play with friend J during recess, but he doesn’t want to 
lose his long time friend A.   
DS is not a talker. He usually doesn’t talk about school.  I can see he is really worried this time because what happened in 1st grade.

Does anyone have experiences and advices? I appreciate all the help!

Thanks!
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