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[quote=Anonymous][quote=TheManWithAUsername]I'll third what's been said and add:

[b]Beating yourself up and contemplating suicide for acting immorally is not a substitute for changing your behavior. Wallowing in guilt and self-pity doesn't help the people you're hurting, and no one is going to pity you for feeling bad because you're acting poorly.

Either end the affair or start divorce planning today.[/b]

In addition to that - whichever option - do something nice for your husband every day without looking for anything, even gratitude, in return. (I'm assuming he isn't abusive or otherwise toxic; you didn't indicate that.)

If you do those things and you don't feel a lot better, I'll be shocked - won't you?[/quote]

This is the best advice that anyone can give you. Second piece of advice, : RUN, DON'T WALK to a reputable therapist - one with a PhD.

You are hurting yourself and your husband and your child, and your behavior is reprehensible. Only a trained professional can help you at this point. And why do I know all of this? Because my soon-to-be-ex-husband did something similar to what you're doing and it has DESTROYED EVERYONE INVOLVED.

Disgusting. 
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