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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you are feeling very conflicted and confused about the direction of your life.  We can all go through phases, and have the capacity to take charge of our own lives and think about the consequences of the actions.

My advice -- 
(1)  stop the relationship/affair - you don't need to explain the man that you are married - just end it.
(2)  see a therapist about this.
(3)  [b]don't tell your husband.  why would you tell him?  to alleviate your own sense of guilt? no. if you want to make this work, do not tell him.  but you SHOULD get tested for STDs, and if you have something then you will need to tell....[/b]
(4)  go to couple's counseling, and if it does not work out then instead of "telling" him -- i would just divorce..........................  you may need to find work, get more education, but you can do it....

Hang in there!

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She should tell him because he has a right to know what marriage he is in and to be allowed to make decisions about that marriage. Keeping him out of the equation isn't righting any wrongs - it is just continuing the sham of a marriage that currently exists. You may wish to not know about your husband/wife's affairs but the majority of people want to know so they can make informed decisions about their own lives. [/quote]

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