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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Reasonable:

You are moving away so:

You fly the child out, leave chid with Dad Thanksgiving, Christmas and Spring Break and fly back and get him when break is over paying all expenses.  Reasonable is Dad gets 8 weeks in the summer with you flying child back/forth and paying for the flights.

Reasonable is a 10 minute phone call every night.[/quote]

No, 8 weeks alone is not reasonable for a 6 year old and a parent who sounds like they are basically unfit. reading between the lines, something is going on with the dad’s mental health.

OP, I think daily calls would be great but not if your ex will flake. Sometimes though it can be easier just to do something every day than 2x/week in terms of scheduling.

For visits - can your ex stay with you when he visits? One of the more functional long-distance divorces I know of, the noncustodial dad would go stay in the mom’s house for long visits (up to 2 weeks I think). An unusual situation but they were very dedicated to their child.

For visits to dad’s house - I would plan to travel out their with the child for a few years as much as possible, stay in an airbnb

Another possibility would be if your ex has any relatives you trust? Kid and dad could stay together with the in laws. [/quote]

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