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[quote=Anonymous]In our case, I’d have to pay support to DH because I make so much more money than him and I don’t want to do that. Our kids would be alone with him which will mean unlimited McDonald’s and tv and I’m not ok with that. I’m fat and now in my late 30s with 2 kids, highly doubt I’d find anyone nice to date me. I love our house very much and would likely lose it if we divorced. DH isn’t mean to me ever, just very limited and disengaged. DH does do 1-2 things around the house and if we divorced I’d have to handle those things on my own. I came from a divorce family and it really was awful and I don’t want that for my kids. I find im less resentful when I just plan my days and weekends totally independent of him and don’t expect anything from him and then if he decides to participate it’s a nice bonus but I’m not disappointed if he doesn’t.[/quote]
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