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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. It's hard for me to answer why I stay. It feels not bad enough to blow up our lives over. I keep hoping it'll get better, and it has gotten easier with the kids getting a bit older. But also, I was abused as a kid and I am great at persuading myself that things really aren't that bad. [/quote] Sorry for your past abuse; it can really affect our whole lives in the most insidious ways and we have to be intentional about recognizing and breaking patterns. Sounds like you're on your way. Perhaps seek individual therapy to work through this situation so you begin to recognize you deserve better, even if it's being single and happier.[/quote]
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