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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thank you all for your thoughts. I just keep going back and forth, honestly. Our oldest and youngest are 6.5 years apart and adore each other, so, while it is a large gap, I know it wouldn’t be awful. Due to my middle son’s disabilities, I SAH anyway, so childcare isn’t an issue. I know the first 5 years or so would be challenging, but in the grand scheme of things it’s a blimp, and, as I said, siblings have truly been the best thing for our disabled son. I would LOVE another child, but I do worry about spreading our resources too thin. We did casually mention to our oldest the idea of having another sibling to gauge his reaction (thinking he may feel as parents we’re already not available enough) and he was beyond excited. Youngest has been regularly asking for a baby the past year. We have a lot of love to give another child. But, it’s not something we would necessarily be considering if we didn’t have the embryo already there.[/quote]

I was already going to say were I you, I'd transfer. Reading the above, solidifies I absolutely would. You have the single embryo remaining so it is not as though you have multiple to make a decision on.[/quote]

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