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[quote=Anonymous]NP here, but I must say this is one of the best advice threads I have seen. I agree with so much. OP I am sorry things aren't working out the way you had hoped. Let go of your expectations and accept what is. You don't have to be best friends. You may not share the same interests and values. Just treat her with respect and remember nothing in life stays exactly the same. Just because you aren't friends now doesn't mean it won't happen, but if she is letting you know by actions she does not want to have a friendship, follow her lead. Remember dating and the guy who kept pursuing you despite the fact you weren't interested. I know that sort of thing made me really uncomfortable. It's the same with friendships. If she isn't interested in a close relationship right now, let it be. Continue to be nice, but respect her choice. If she wants a friendship in the future, let her take the lead and initiate something. [/quote]
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