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[quote=Anonymous]OP I am so sorry. I hope your mom doesn't feed into the guilt by saying things that rip your heart. Been there. It is so hard and many of us can relate. Therapy helped me do what I could and not feel guilty taking care of myself and my family I created.

Does she qualify for hospice? The people who work at these places are extraordinary and it might be worth it to activate that.

Is she on some good meds to stay upbeat? If not, I'd talk to her about it. She might as well be able to enjoy her last months of life and if properly medicated she will be able to appreciate whatever people do to show they care without making them feel bad for not meeting her every expectation. You also may want to consider medication.

You have permission to take care of yourself. You have permission to do only what you can handle. You have a right to live your life too. You have a right to show love in ways that feel comfortable to you. You have a right to to set boundaries if she guilt trips you. You matter too. Your health matters too. Your well being matters. [/quote]

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