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[quote=Anonymous]I think I would discuss options with dd before the visit and come to a tentative decision. Then go over the choices with the doctor and discuss your pros and cons to see what they recommend. I’d probably insist on an IUD, because they’re highly effective and don’t rely on her remembering to take it daily. But I’d listen to relevant opinions.

I’d let DD decide how much of the exam she wants me there for. I’d allow for whatever privacy she needs to discuss concerns with the doctor, and also allow for privacy during the physical exam if she wants it. Do they do pelvic exams on sexually active teens? I mean they have to get all up in her business if they’re inserting an IUD but I’m not sure if they do it for the pill. I’d ask before the visit so I can prepare her. I’d also give a heads up beforehand so she knows what to expect during the exam, what topics will be discussed, then follow her lead. Also make sure the doctor tells her condoms are still needed even if she’s using birth control. Then I’d be buying condoms for her because I wouldn’t want to risk her being without them.

It feels awkward giving up control of medical issues, but she’s clearly already making her own decisions about her body, and I know I have some level of veto power if I absolutely need it. However, it’s probably not going to be effective to veto much, because it’s not hard to work around parents who try to stand in the way. [/quote]

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