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[quote=Anonymous]PP here. After the initial chat and establishing a cooperative bond you can move to discipline if necessary. Neutral description, I message, chance to modify, consequence. “I noticed that when I said this you did/said X. I feel sad when you talk to me like that. Could you please try again?” If child won’t budge then give a consequence that is commensurable, like If you cannot get your shoes we cannot go out. If you do not turn off the TV now the TV will go away for X days. Maybe less screen time could help, I know some people say that their kids become quite unmanageable if too much screen time. Finally, lots of positive specific reinforcement. Don’t just say good job or thanks for being polite — too vague. “You said that with a please,” or “You looked in my eyes and answered my question directly.” The key is describing the exact behavior you want to see repeated.[/quote]
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