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[quote=Anonymous]A lot of these problems are solvable if he really wants to work on them.  Even with AS, if he makes this a priority you can have a good sex life.  But getting him there might be very difficult.

My advice: (1) take this seriously as a major problem.  You deserve a great sex life and are right to feel cheated.  Get yourself a therapist so you can start working on your own emotions and work through the issues, (2) DH need to know and understand.  It may come down to you demanding that the two of you see a marriage counselor or you are out of there.  Since he got diagnosed as an adult -- and this is unusual -- he may be open to the world of professional interventions.  But, again, it may take pressure to get him there.  Seeing your own therapist would help.

Once he's willing there are all sorts of supports for sexual issues form books to videos to professionals.  I would think the most difficult part would be making him make this a priority.

Good luck.  This sucks but I think there is hope.
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