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[quote=Anonymous]I'm super thankful that DH is an equal when it comes to household/family stuff. But some of that is because I'm really laid back about how he handles a lot of things. My mom was super uptight and things had to be done her way. If they weren't (and usually it involved reading her mind), she would be grumpy, passive aggressive, and sometimes just yell. Eventually my brother and I just developed a "why bother" attitude around a lot of our chores because mom would do them anyways because we didn't do them to her standards. My dad didn't have a lot of household responsibilities because of this, but he worked and handled a lot of our extra curricular activities. If you want someone to be an equal and do their part in the household/family stuff, you also have to let them do it how they want to do it. Otherwise that builds up resentment too. [/quote]
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