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[quote=Anonymous]Stop with the taking care of the women in your husbands side of the family. It is perpetuating the dynamic where he does not need to show up because another adult is handling the stuff. Let it be what it is - that he does not send the women in his family this stuff. If you really look at this issue he likely has a mom who also handled all this stuff for him. If this is the case recognize you are continuing the dynamic. Full stop there. In regards to you enjoying your Mother’s Day. That’s awesome your kids did something for you! Go out to a nice dinner or order all your fav foods for dinner! Treat yourself and have fun with your kids!! Also, maybe order yourself something nice you’ve been eyeing, or take yourself out to do all those spa treatments you know would help you feel great! You can’t control your husband. You don’t need to take in the labor of his absences, literal and metaphorical, ever. And you deserve to love you and your kids up in this day![/quote]
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