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[quote=Anonymous]I have been in a serious relationship for more than 2 years with a man with 3 kids. I also have 3 kids. My exh and I have a pretty good working relationship, can be flexible with time, and I genuinely like his gf and she is great with the kids. I hope they get married (this is his 4th gf the kids have known in 8 years.) There are lot of moving parts between our kids schedules and while it's not perfect, we do our best.

This is very much not the case with my bf and his exwife. She is reactive and controlling, esp when she has any hint that I am involved in plans or whatever. She is very inflexible on the schedule (I get that this is how some divorces are and have a right to be.) But the issue is his lack of wanting to fight with her and how it affects our relationship. I truly love this man. We have known each other for years. But I am reaching my breaking point in terms of boundaries. This is triggered by trying to make plans for the summer and her being difficult and questioning everything. I wish more than anything that she would find a boyfriend but she has no interest in that, apparently.

For the record our kids are all age 12 - 17. Not even that young.

I want to stay in this relationship because overall it is the best one I have never been in. But I can't take much more of feeling like my schedule and summer and plans are being dictated by her, and yes that is on him.[/quote]

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