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[quote=Anonymous]OP a lot of this depends on your financial situation. Is a $500 purchase a major item for you you discuss? How much do you typically spend on your clothes and no essentials? Most importantly are you saving or in debt? If you are in debt that is hard to pay off or have financial concerns going forward ( is one of you quitting your job to take care of the baby, or have you not yet budgeted for childcare?) then you might need to more carefully consider what is reasonable to afford. Otherwise I suggest that you consider a compromise. A good car seat is probably important and if you will be doing a lot of walking Or especially running on tough terrain you need a strong stroller. But you probably shouldn’t splurge on 20 newborn outfits the baby will wear once and every baby is so different you might wait to understand more about your needs. And a lovely nursery can be done on not too much. Good luck OP. I think a heart to heart with your DH to find the compromise that matches your finances is in order. Good luck. [/quote]
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