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[quote=Anonymous]I am asking for your experiences with spouses.  I grew up in a household where my parents didn't call each other names.  But my DH, when upset in argument, frequently will call me a "B*TCH" or "F*CK YOU" and has done it since I was pregnant with the kids. I do not call names back.  I am just surprised that he keeps doing it.  I want to know if I am living in a state of "denial" because I have been with him for more than five years and this is the status quo now in the relationship: name-callling (initially in response to asking him to help more with the kids at night, but now more mundane things).  My two year old has started saying the F bomb as well learned from her daddy.   Deep down I sense that this cannot be normal, or at least is not normal from my own family background. So I ask: is it okay for spouses to speak this way to their family, ever?  My DH keeps promising to stop but it keeps happening.  I need to know if this is normal guy behavior or crossing the line.  I am afraid that now that the "boundary" has been broken (he knows I hate it when he calls me names but does it over and over) that I can't do anything to stop it.  Is it possible to be in a happy marriage with a spouse who calls the other such names?  I realize this question may sound naive...[/quote]

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