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Reply to "Please give me some resources that can help my DH with balancing limits and agency"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you and your DH have different styles, but that neither of you is right or wrong. Setting up a dynamic where his choices are seen as "boneheaded" and yours as "right" or where you blame him because of issues between you and your kid during meals you serve, is really harmful. When he is parenting, stay out of it. If your kid is old enough to have a conversation about what they want for dinner, than eating 30 minutes late isn't going to hurt them. Neither is being told not to wear a coat when it's 80 degrees. Seeing their mother treat their father with contempt will. [/quote] This. I would have a simple discussion with him as to what rules are important in the house and you need to be a united front ( maybe dinner is ins if thise maybe not). [/quote]
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