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[quote=Anonymous]Ours is (by mutual agreement) about 60/40. The 60% parent is closer to school and has a more flexible schedule. That makes for an easier time getting them to school and back and that parent is better about dealing with homework, appointments, etc and has a more flexible schedule. The "lost" time during the week isn't really something the 40% parent minds because when they're with them on weekdays it's mostly rushed, chaotic, unpleasant time. Traffic, homework, dinner prep, bedtime, etc. The schedule we have also minimizes the number of transitions the kids have between houses which is something they have asked for. The weekend/vacation time is split evenly so the kids get a good amount of quality time with each parent. They do still have some weekend nights with the 40% parent so it's not a complete "fun parent" role. [/quote]
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