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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like they wanted an excuse to have a vacation together. Can you drop in for a day or two and continue with your plans? If not, tell them you hope they have a great time, and maybe plan another time to see them. This was quite imposing on them on you, but hopefully it was with good intentions. If so, I'd be gentle with your decline.[/quote] I cannot drop in for a day or two because the plan for my birthday was to go to Florida. They are renting a house in WVa. Also, why would I drop in? No one consulted me. They can't make it "oh, we wanted to come and see you on your birthday". That's not what I wanted, I didn't invite them. Even DCs know that birthdays are about what birthday people want. You may not always like it but it's their day, you go along with it, and no, b-day people are not selfish for asking one day a year to be about them and their needs.[/quote]
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